Which one is older - "Leaving together' or 'Marriage"?

'Leaving together' versus ‘marriage’
There was a question in Sukhdukh.com that “Do women in India believe in living together with a ‘boy friend’ before marriage?”
My answer was -
· First of all, do not categorise all men and women in one or same category in this regard.
· A section of people do this and believe it as ‘no wrong’.
· I know a good amount of people going through such type of relationship and they become parents latter on.
· Our ‘film industry’ and the ‘political arena’ are the biggest producer of such relationship.
· Even middle class and poor section also go through it-in good numbers.
· Still then people(man and woman both) believe and relay more on - marriage. They feel - free & reliable – ‘the marriage’ more than the
· ‘leaving together’.
· Do not mark ‘leaving together’, as an western culture, it is an ancient Indian culture also.
· Do not be confused about ‘leaving together’ as a modern concept introduced in modern society. It is as old as the human society come to its existance. In comparison between marriage & leaving together marriage is a new concept introduced in the society. Therefore leaving together is the older and original, system than the marriage.
· If anybody likes to do more discussions in this regard, welcome .

EXISTANCE OF SUPER NATURAL POWER.

GOD

I do not believe in God because I feel that, there is no God, there is nothing like a God, God doesn’t exist at all. The concept of God was created by the ancient cleaver persons, to capture the ruling power. The other purpose was to regulate the society. Ordinary people, either compailed to follow them, or they were destroyed. Now a day’s people are habituated to believe it. From that practice, they declare that they belong to a particular religion. If the religion has scientific base, then so many religions can not exist. Surprisingly they describe the God & explain there religion in different manner - which is not only contradictory, self contradictory also. It clearly shows that, they have no scientific base. There is no God & nothing exist like a God. In internet I surprisingly found that one lady claims that God, by gender is women. It was her guise only. The question of gender determination of God is practically impossible. However if anyone feel happy to believe that the God is feminine, then no problem, just let the person believe it. God is the criation of human being only. God is an imagination only. God is imagine as a super natural power - who creator & controller of the materialistic world. There is no soul & nothing like a soul. Life is the effect of bio chemical energy activation of the body. After death, no living thing, including a person can alive or survive.

Our imagination & believe should have some scientific base. Imagination or believe, without having scientific base is merely a stupidity. We should be careful about it, against the concept of god and it’s allieds.
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Today I have seen a news in ‘Nababharat’ a prominant Hindi daily newspaper, dated 4.8.09. This news is from Washington. One American person found guilty for the death of his daughter. The daughter was a diabetic patient of 11 years age. The guilty person did not provide medicine to his daughter. Instead of proper medical treatment and care he depnd upon the prayer only and as a result of that he lost her daughter. His wife also accompanied him in this mal treatment to their daughter. On the contrary medical expert says that if the poor child got proper treatment she could recover from the diseas.
I saw a similar news in the same newspaper a few days back.
One father took his snake bitten child to a quack doctor ( jharfukwala / baidya ) instead of proper medical treatment and as a result of that – he lost his child.

Everywhere in the world, one thingh is common that, relay and believe on spper natural power proved harmful to the society.
The civilized society should be cautious about all such things to save this society.There should be campaign / movement against the concept of ‘God’ – which is actually, an imagine of ancient people which harming the society in various ways.

THE MARRIAGE, AS IT - WAS, IS, AND WILL BE

The marriage is one of the social institution - which has a great importence over the society as well as the individual member of the society.