'Leaving together' versus ‘marriage’
There was a question in Sukhdukh.com that “Do women in India believe in living together with a ‘boy friend’ before marriage?”
My answer was -
· First of all, do not categorise all men and women in one or same category in this regard.
· A section of people do this and believe it as ‘no wrong’.
· I know a good amount of people going through such type of relationship and they become parents latter on.
· Our ‘film industry’ and the ‘political arena’ are the biggest producer of such relationship.
· Even middle class and poor section also go through it-in good numbers.
· Still then people(man and woman both) believe and relay more on - marriage. They feel - free & reliable – ‘the marriage’ more than the
· ‘leaving together’.
· Do not mark ‘leaving together’, as an western culture, it is an ancient Indian culture also.
· Do not be confused about ‘leaving together’ as a modern concept introduced in modern society. It is as old as the human society come to its existance. In comparison between marriage & leaving together marriage is a new concept introduced in the society. Therefore leaving together is the older and original, system than the marriage.
· If anybody likes to do more discussions in this regard, welcome .
There was a question in Sukhdukh.com that “Do women in India believe in living together with a ‘boy friend’ before marriage?”
My answer was -
· First of all, do not categorise all men and women in one or same category in this regard.
· A section of people do this and believe it as ‘no wrong’.
· I know a good amount of people going through such type of relationship and they become parents latter on.
· Our ‘film industry’ and the ‘political arena’ are the biggest producer of such relationship.
· Even middle class and poor section also go through it-in good numbers.
· Still then people(man and woman both) believe and relay more on - marriage. They feel - free & reliable – ‘the marriage’ more than the
· ‘leaving together’.
· Do not mark ‘leaving together’, as an western culture, it is an ancient Indian culture also.
· Do not be confused about ‘leaving together’ as a modern concept introduced in modern society. It is as old as the human society come to its existance. In comparison between marriage & leaving together marriage is a new concept introduced in the society. Therefore leaving together is the older and original, system than the marriage.
· If anybody likes to do more discussions in this regard, welcome .
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